El Principito te explica la diferencia entre querer y amar

Puedes pensar que amar y querer significan lo mismo, pero la realidad es otra.  El querer es el deseo de poseer algo, obtener algo para ti mismo, es intentar adueñarte de alguien, pretender que ocupe un vacío que tú mismo no pudiste llenar. Por el contrario, amar es dar, entender, desear la felicidad de la otra persona, sin esperar nada a cambio.

Esta misma reflexión la encontramos en el budismo, que nos dice que cuando queremos una flor la arrancamos para llevarla con nosotros; pero, cuando en realidad sentimos amor por aquella planta, lo que haremos será regarla constantemente con el fin de hacer que su vida sea duradera y feliz.

A continuación, quiero compartirte este texto basado en la obra El Principito, escrito por  Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, pero recreado por Viviana Baldo :

”Te amo” – dijo el principito…
”Yo también te quiero” – dijo la rosa.
”No es lo mismo” – respondió él…

“Querer es tomar posesión de algo, de alguien. Es buscar en los demás eso que llena las expectativas personales de afecto, de compañía…

Querer es hacer nuestro lo que no nos pertenece, es adueñarnos o desear algo para completarnos, porque en algún punto nos reconocemos carentes.

Querer es esperar, es apegarse a las cosas y a las personas desde nuestras necesidades. Entonces, cuando no tenemos reciprocidad hay sufrimiento. Cuando el “bien” querido no nos corresponde, nos sentimos frustrados y decepcionados.

Si quiero a alguien, tengo expectativas, espero algo. Si la otra persona no me da lo que espero, sufro. El problema es que hay una mayor probabilidad de que la otra persona tenga otras motivaciones, pues todos somos muy diferentes. Cada ser humano es un universo.

Amar es desear lo mejor para el otro, aun cuando tenga motivaciones muy distintas.

Amar es permitir que seas feliz, aun cuando tu camino sea diferente al mío. Es un sentimiento desinteresado que nace en un donarse, es darse por completo desde el corazón.

Por esto, el amor nunca será causa de sufrimiento.

Cuando una persona dice que ha sufrido por amor, en realidad ha sufrido por querer, no por amar. Se sufre por apegos.

Si realmente se ama, no puede sufrir, pues nada ha esperado del otro.

Cuando amamos nos entregamos sin pedir nada a cambio, por el simple y puro placer de dar.

Pero es cierto también que esta entrega, este darse, desinteresado, solo se da en el conocimiento.

Solo podemos amar lo que conocemos, porque amar implica tirarse al vacío, confiar la vida y el alma. Y el alma no se indemniza.

Y conocerse es justamente saber de vos, de tus alegrías, de tu paz, pero también de tus enojos, de tus luchas, de tu error.

Porque el amor trasciende el enojo, la lucha, el error y no es solo para momentos de alegría.

Amar es la confianza plena de que pase lo que pase vas a estar, no porque me debas nada, no con posesión egoísta, sino estar, en silenciosa compañía.

Amar es saber que no te cambia el tiempo, ni las tempestades, ni mis inviernos.

Amar es darte un lugar en mi corazón para que te quedes como padre, madre, hermano, hijo, amigo y saber que en el tuyo hay un lugar para mí.

Dar amor no agota el amor, por el contrario, lo aumenta.  La manera de devolver tanto amor, es abrir el corazón y dejarse amar.”

-”Ya entendí” – dijo la rosa.

-” No lo entiendas, vívelo” – agregó el principito.

Recuerda las palabras de Mario Benedetti: «Hay personas que te ofrecen las estrellas y otras que te llevan a ellas, esa es la diferencia entre quien quiere y quien ama».  

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